During a Whitney Biennial year call the Whitney's main number and ask to speak to the "head curator". Whoever you end up speaking to, invite them to visit your studio.
Write "my website" with a sharpie on a 2"x 8" piece of wood (preferably pine) and place it on the ground at the front door of "your dream gallery". The best time to do this is in the summer.
Enter your work into ten juried shows in a year. If you get any rejection notices, take those notices and cut them into pieces. Dip the pieces into chocolate. Put them in a dish and tell your guests, "It's candy."